You’re engaged, you’re in love, you’ve probably argued about flowers, who to invite, or whether the DJ really needs to cost that much. Congratulations, you’re doing great. Repeat after me, marriage is not the wedding. The wedding is one day. Marriage is… every day. Groceries. Money. Family. Stress. Sex. Communication. Who loads the dishwasher “wrong.” All of it. Jon and I do premarital counseling for one simple reason: to help couples build a foundation strong enough to hold